Little Man & Tiny Toes

Discrimination Welcome Here

2012-01-26T21:42:00.001-06:00

I think one of my favorite characteristics of blogging is the fun we have with word play. What came to your mind when you read the title? Probably racial discrimination? What do I think of when I first see that word discrimination? Why I think of my old Sprague Dawley Albino Rats from college days. Discrimination is a form of learning. Teach the slightly dehydrated red eyed little rat to discriminate and only press a lever for a sip of water when the tone sounds and ...ta da, you have discrimination. Because the reinforcement is so powerful, if you stop the tone, you also stop the behavior. So where am I going with all this? My theme for 2012 is to discriminate.

In our lives we have literally thousands of "levers" to choose from all of which offer a drop of some consequence or another -- positive or negative. My "drop" from facebook was less and less nourishing so I cleaned house a little, unsubscribed a little more and voila -- after a a little discrimination, I'm comfortable with it again.

Time is certainly the biggest factor for all of us. What do I spend my time on? Who do I spend my time with? or who do I not spend time with? What am I eating? or what am I not eating? How am I keeping my body healthy? or how am I not? What am I learning? or what am I not? What am I reading? or what am I not? What am I watching? or what am I not? These are some of the many questions I've been asking myself for the last several weeks. There's plenty more deliberation where that came from, too. I hope that somehow I'm bettering my family for this and not only myself. But the truth is, I see changes already. Or rather -- I feel changes already. I hope it continues...

When we put God first, all other things fall into their proper place or drop out of our lives.

-Ezra Taft Benson

One for the books

2012-01-13T22:53:00.003-06:00

Last fall, we finally gave this big empty white wall a makeover. The finished product is one for the books indeed. Too bad we still have even more books nestled in boxes (not too many though). Next item?... a library ladder.

Christmas 2011

2012-01-05T08:46:00.001-06:00

We had a very fun holiday this year. Right before Christmas one of Big Daddy's old grad school friends stopped by on a long layover from DC to Australia. They left us on Christmas Eve to fly to Australia and landed in Australia the day after Christmas -- yes, they "officially" missed Christmas!

I loved having Christmas on a Sunday. I wish it could always be on a Sunday from now on. A shortened church service and then home for a more mellow opening of presents. The kids called it the best Christmas ever because they were so excited Santa knew just what they wanted and surprised them a little, too. I loved Christmas since my in-laws gifted me with the motion picture 17 Miracles -- a fabulous re-telling of the Willey Handcart Company of 1856. Big Daddy found it the most depressing movie and I, one of the most inspiring. The kids enjoyed it and we have been reading from I Walked to Zion as part of our nightly story time ever since.

Two days after Christmas, Grammy came in with a cousin and stayed for several days. Although our fridge was full of leftovers, Grammy enjoyed taking us around town for several meals. I'm pretty sure no one felt even one twinge of hunger during our visit! So much good food! Thankfully we took many walks together. The kids enjoyed playing and the weather couldn't have been more beautiful. It was hard for the kids to see Grammy leave on New Year's Eve -- they wanted to go visit Utah right then and play in the snow with all the cousins.

This year is the first year I let/encouraged them to stay up until midnight on New Year's Eve. We played games, snacked and watched Phineas & Ferb until it was FINALLY midnight (and boy I had not anticipated the outbreak of potty talk that erupts after 9:30 PM around here). When I was growing up, we used to take a large belt of old horse sleigh bells outside at midnight a shake it to ring in the new year. I told the kids to get something loud. Little Man grabbed a bike horn and Tiny Toes the mini cow bell we use to signal dinnertime. Although no one on our street was out making noise, you could certainly hear celebrating around us, but when I told the kids to make noise, I got one toot from Little Man and one half bell ring from Tiny Toes and then they raced back to the door and wanted to go in! I had to call them back out to get a picture only to have them scowling and shivering (which is on my new camera which is presently at a conference in Chicago with Big Daddy). [Last summer, I was hosting a sleepover with 5/7 cousins at Grammy's. The kids wouldn't settle down by 1:30 AM, so I turned on the backyard floods and sent them out for "silent" midnight tag and then a bonfire until 4 AM.] I couldn't believe how LOUD my kids were then, but they sure got shy on New Year's. I'll have to post the scowling, shivering children later.

"You wanna Christmas card?

2011-12-21T16:40:00.002-06:00

Here's your Christmas card!"
(Seinfeld's still on my brain after all these years)

School Christmas Parties

2011-12-21T16:34:00.000-06:00

I attended the school parties this year. I am Little Man's room mother which is why there are more pictures of his party (and 4th graders don't really tolerate photog mom's like 2nd graders will)...
Friday also (hopefully) was the last day of my crossing guard subbing job at a neighboring elementary school. After 10 days I learned that 2 miles can make an extraordinary difference in neighborhoods and I was thankful I didn't live in that one. At this crosswalk, I had parents honk at me, yell at me, almost hit me vying for their spot in line, drop their kids off IN the crosswalk (and then proceed to drive away while I stood in the street with my STOP sign held high above my head), speed, and almost NOT stop because they were on the phone (yes, that is illegal in the school zones) and my all time favorite -- parents in cars STOPPING and camping in the crosswalk, blocking the intersection, to keep incoming cars from a side street from budding in front of them in line despite numerous signs asking them not to do so. It was bizarro world for sure and I was thankful to leave it behind.

out takes from Christmas card photo session

2011-12-11T22:22:00.003-06:00

So the one of them looking at each other (not posted) was a little too creepy engaged brother and sister looking, but I did like these. No I don't have an expensive camera or photo shop, but I thought they were cute...

Santa, the angel and the shepherd...

2011-12-11T21:58:00.003-06:00

Friday was our church's annual Christmas Party. Our neighbors had a work party downtown, so we took their kids with us. Big Daddy was helping with the food (see those marvelous salads he began working on at 4?). I was in charge of helping with the kids and Santa. We got some fun ornaments crafts for the kids to work on while waiting for Santa. Then is was into the big room for food and a program. Tiny Toes was the angel and Little Man a shepherd. With all those kids running around (and amok), it was good to leave and come home to a quiet house...

Too bad the boys didn't want to sit on Santa's lap! What a cute picture of the girls, huh?!!

I am a daughter of God and that is enough for me.

2011-12-08T20:04:00.003-06:00

Ever have a theme begin to run through your life? You happen upon it in a book, or a friend or relative and suddenly your are contemplating the philosophical underpinnings of your very existence? That would be me and feminism as of late. I do not consider myself a feminist, yet, typing that even now, still makes me cringe and flinch as though I have just said something completely outrageous and inappropriate. It is true, I am not a feminist, but I didn't know how to articulate it until I read this:
http://blog.cjanerun.com/2010/12/in-response-how-sometimes-i-think-my.html
or just scroll down and read here:

Last week Kathy Soper sent me a copy of a post she had written for Patheos (a religious discussion-oriented website with different denominational portals). As with everything Kathy writes, I thought it was original, thought-provoking and powerfully written. The piece is called, As Sisters in Zion: Mormon Feminism and Sisterhood.

As I understood it, the article is not about determining what is feminism in our church (and like she says, who is and who isn't) but about the study of gender issues. How we can have a conversation about our church's established (some doctrinally, some culturally) gender roles and how women can feel empowered to change those if they desire. Or at most, get along with each other.

What I didn't know is that when Patheos published Kathy's article they connected it to a Mormon Feminism Symposium with respondents from well-educated, strongly opinionated Mormon women. I spent the afternoon yesterday and into the evening last night (rubbing eyes) reading and studying all responses. I hope I am not giving away my entertainment levels of my recent past, but it was the most fun I've had in awhile. There is complete enjoyment in stirring the soul.

I have already (painstakingly) written about my ideas about feminism (see:here). Basically, I don't choose to use the term feminism for myself because the term Daughter of God suffices--more than suffices--to produce something inside of me that is ultimately commanding (a thought Neylan McBaine also processed in her well-stated reaction here). And to that end, I also believe that any woman who was, has been and will be inspired to bring about the betterment of the female life was also directed by God. I acknowledge the efforts made by these women--tough decisions and radical thinking--and for the good they have done, I believe they were inspired by personal and powerful revelation, not feminism per se. Ultimately I believe being a Mormon female, along with all the covenants, promises and oaths I have made supersedes the feminism agenda. And sometimes I worry that if my fellow saints get too engaged in what is and what isn't a Mormon feminist they miss the whole glory of being a Mormon woman.

But in writing this I also affirm that Mormon feminism ideals--like the ones presented in the symposium--are important and empowering in their own right. Like Kathy, I don't think it matters who claims feminist and who doesn't, but that a conversation of women exists. I'd just like to see a similar gathering of women who would like to examine what our belief system teaches us about the spiritual woman, the woman of divine origins and eternal destiny. Because that is where we are the strongest, and perhaps most radically different from other religions.

And now (!) a word about gender roles. My husband and I haven't always followed a typical, linear bread winner/housewife pattern. There have been times in my marriage when I brought home the steady paycheck (like I do currently) and there have been times when I haven't. There also have been times when neither one of us brought home a regular income. We've always had an idea that our family could work together for all the responsibilities --work, housework, children care, bill pay--instead of a delegated system. (I do most of the work on this website, while my husband picks up the slack in other areas, essentially this a family-run business.) However, we've found that my husband is blessed with (for the lack of a better term) with a clear, confident belief in our income and the source of it. I lack that ability. But even though he spends a lot of time with our children, sometimes being solely responsible for their nurturing, I have an instinctual gift to speak their language. I know what their needs are almost effortlessly. This isn't so with my husband, he can do the detective work, but it is work.

I don't think the model of our family is what is important as much as how we use the innate and divine gifts given to our genders to create a working, progressing, (generally) happy household. Though we have tried to reverse the order, it seems--spiritually speaking--I get revelation regarding the children and he receives it for our lifestyle, and when we are allowing for that revelation we feel we are the most empowered.

And one more thing about gender roles in our household. On a practical basis of husband and wife I feel we are super partners, we work side by side to bring about the daily workings of our family. We are both equally dedicated to this cause. If there is an imbalance we both fail (and are terribly ornery). There has to be kindness, openness and respect or there is nothing at all.

But as it pertains to my womanhood, my essence as well as in my body, I feel deeply inside of me that there is something so beautiful, eternal and holy about being a female that equality becomes inexplicable. And for his part, my husband feels it too--he directs the force I feel, supporting me in this path of female holiness. I think it's given to every female and receiving male, though hard to express intellectually, with a restricted vocabulary, it undeniably exists. When treated with firm respect by the woman herself and a man full of unrestricted charity, it becomes a powerful source of revelation and transcendence--a place where the importance of gender leads to the paradise of being One.

It something like this: in a Christ-covenanted marriage, a man becomes immortal when he is with a woman, because in her is the key to eternal life. And perhaps what we think is a typical patriarchal, male-led church is the greatest cover up for the most truthful, matriarchal system the world has ever known.

Next time, let's discuss that in the symposium.

Thank you to my friend Kathy, the generous respondents and Dan from Patheos for watering my own garden of thought yesterday. It is sure to grow.

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2011-12-05T21:41:00.005-06:00

It's beginning to look a lot like...

2011-12-03T21:31:00.002-06:00

School pics

2011-11-22T16:58:00.003-06:00

Sometimes the school picture gods smile down upon us...

2nd Grade Program

2011-11-22T16:01:00.004-06:00

In our district, every 2nd grade participates in a 2nd grade program. 2 years ago, Tiny Toes had some severe asthma during hers and missed it. This year, we made it for Little Man. It was so cute -- one of those experiences as a parent where you are smiling and crying at the same time (it's not a pretty sight -- it really presents itself as one ugly cry).
But this little guy was really a sight to watch -- belted out every song so proudly and blushed profusely once the roaring applause began. Love that kid!!

Volleyball Tourny

2011-11-09T22:01:00.003-06:00

Tiny Toes had her volleyball tournament on Saturday. The season has been rough, but she had a good, solid team. They lost the first game of the morning, then won the second ... BUT the Texas Christian Academy Girls didn't like losing and instead of high-fiving our girls under the net after the game, many of them scratched our girls' arms up -- Tiny Toes included.

the scratching is taking place and we didn't really know until just in time to grab their coach as he walked out the door.

Proud Dad

after the win, we went on and lost the third game; however, we still came in 4th overall! Way to go girls!!

All I want for Christmas...

2011-11-09T22:00:00.002-06:00

Who needs the Texas State Fair when you have a fantastic carnival like this?

2011-11-09T21:52:00.003-06:00

a fabulous school carnival...

A long post for a long weekend

2011-10-26T20:44:00.012-05:00

Last weekend was a Fall Break for our district. The weekend began with an early release on Thursday from school. The weather was beautiful and the kids played outside all afternoon. In the evening Tiny Toes had a softball game.

Friday morning, when the kids woke up, I made them clean before they could have their Mickey Mouse waffles. I had a little church meeting at 11:15 and our house was orderly and the waffles were made in plenty of time for the meeting. (WAY TO GO KIDS!!). After the meeting, we raced down to one of our old haunts to have lunch with some dear friends...

We used to eat and relax here for hours back when life wasn't quite so complicated with school and other things. In fact, the lunch was so relaxing and enjoyable, I began thinking about my schedule... back to that in a minute.

On Saturday, my string ensemble met in a nearby town as a musical number for a Veteran's Day Celebration. I knew it was a "community event", but didn't realize what exactly it was until I got there. As we waited for our turn to play and looked at my family there to see me and the string ensemble gathered and waiting to perform, I felt my worlds colliding.... (I take violin lessons through the college, and two requirements for that is to attend a weekly Wednesday recital at noon and string ensemble classes Tuesdays and Thursdays -- right during school release. Big Daddy has really been helping out with homework, but over the weeks I've been feeling some tuggings that I should be home then, too.) ... here I was with the people I spend time with two days every week when my kids are getting out of school, pulling their homework out and really debriefing and changing gears from the school day. Suddenly, and ever so slightly, the earth moved and I felt a small shift in my priorities.

As we were about to leave the festivities, Little Man dropped the tower off of his Republic Cruiser/Transformer/Clone Trooper. This is a small gray rectangle -- about the size of all the thousands of rocks we'd been standing on for the past couple of hours. We walked and walked with our heads trained on the ground. Little Man finally lost all composure right there in the field -- he sobbed and sobbed. I said a prayer -- for a toy -- and within 10 minutes Big Daddy had spotted it.

I would have taken a picture of the joyful moment, but my batteries were dead. My batteries were dead because I haven't had time to keep my other batteries charged and it was only luck my camera was in my bag in the first place. I began to think about how all it took to fix that situation was time. Time which could have been spent elsewhere (like ordering a tasty Neapolitan across the street at In&Out), but time. I thought about how little time I've had lately. I remembered the juxtaposition of my family and my string "family" before our performance and by the time we got home, I decided something had to give and there went the ensemble.

My teacher was not very happy and was quite taken aback, but it has been rumbling around within me since the semester began. She was gracious enough to release me from all but 3 ensemble practices wherein I would only stay for 50 minutes in order to practice enough with the group to perform the Schindler's List solo later in November. Additionally, this whole week I was released from any obligation to relax and get myself back in order.

Am I relieved? Yes. Am I a little sad? Yes, but not in the way I might have imagined. Right now, I feel more of an obligation to my students to take lessons -- to keep improving myself to offer them more. Most of my sadness comes from committing to something and having to pull out -- not being able to keep everyone happy and satisfied. And yes, I know that's impossible, but I try my darndest.

I also worry about the future, too. Right now, my obligations to the college will end mid-November; however, I would like to take private lessons with my teacher outside of the college and just come play with the ensemble occasionally as many community people do, but I know she will try and keep me enrolled. She wants many things for me and thinks I'm really letting myself down by pulling back. I shutter to think of her disappointed face when the topic comes up.

I was the first violin student ever at the college -- yes the program began just last year and I had to play with the woodwind ensemble since I was the only string! So a big part of me feels an obligation to my teacher and her string program and although I KNOW the most important work I can do is within the walls of my own home, I still feel guilty.

Sunday and Monday were spent relaxing, cleaning and playing. It was a great weekend and going into it I never would have guessed how I would have come out of it. So thank you Jennifer, for taking the time to have lunch with us and remind me of what is really important.

notes

2011-10-19T21:38:00.003-05:00

I was practicing downstairs in my studio and let the kids stay up for a few minutes to quench their thirst to play a few rounds of jewelanche on the computer. When I came upstairs, I was greeted with some very unexpected gifts...

A big fat busy Sunday

2011-10-17T19:20:00.002-05:00

Sunday morning at about 3:30 Tiny Toes came downstairs to announce she now had the wonderful stomach flu Little Man just got over. I went up and stayed in her room with her until morning and she gagged and wretched her way through the night. I had three musical numbers that day. I played "How Great Thou Art" in my ward and a duet in two other wards. I was planning on leaving right after the music number in my ward to get going, but it was a mission farewell for an amazing young man. At the end of his talk he shared this story and I was SO thankful I'd stayed:

This story was shared by President Thomas S. Monson in a BYU Devotional March 11, 1997:

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For many, particularly the young men and some young women, there is the anticipation of a mission call with its attendant element of sacrifice and commitment. Let me share with you a true pioneer account as an example.

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The Violin

In 1888 Benjamin Landart was 15 years old and an accomplished violinist. Living on a farm in northern Utah with his mother and seven brothers and sisters was sometimes a challenge to Benjamin, because he had less time than he would have liked to play his violin. At times his mother would lock the violin up until he had his farm chores done, so great was the temptation for Benjamin to play it.

In late 1892 Benjamin was asked to travel to Salt Lake City to audition for a place with the territorial orchestra. For him this was a dream come true. After several weeks of practicing and prayers, he went to Salt Lake in March of 1893 for the much-anticipated audition. When he heard Benjamin play, the conductor, a Mr. Dean, told Benjamin he was the most accomplished violinist he had heard west of Denver. He was told to report to Denver for rehearsals in the fall and learned that he would be earning enough money to keep himself, with some left over to send home.

A week after Benjamin received the good news, however, his bishop called him into his office and asked if he couldn't put off playing with the orchestra for a couple of years. He told Benjamin that before he started earning money there was something he owed the Lord. He then asked Benjamin to accept a mission call.

Benjamin felt that giving up his chance to play in the territorial orchestra would be almost more than he could bear, but he also knew what his decision should be. He promised the bishop that if there were any way to raise the money for him to serve, he would accept the call.

When Benjamin told his mother about the call, she was overjoyed. She told him that his father had always wanted to serve a mission but had been killed before that opportunity had come to him. Now Benjamin could go in his place. However, when they discussed the financing of the mission, her face clouded over. Benjamin told her he would not allow her to sell any more of their land.

She studied his face for a moment and then said, "Ben, there is a way we can raise the money. This family has one thing that is of great enough value to send you on your mission. You will have to sell your violin."

Ten days later, on March 23, 1893, Benjamin wrote in his journal:

I awoke this morning and took my violin from its case. All day long I played the music I love. In the evening when the light grew dim and I could see to play no longer, I placed the instrument in its case. It will be enough. Tomorrow I leave for my mission.

Forty-five years later, on June 23, 1938, Benjamin wrote in his journal:

The greatest decision I ever made in my life was to give up something I dearly loved to the God I loved even more. He has never forgotten me for it.

Block Party

2011-10-05T10:53:00.002-05:00

Wow, so last night we had Literacy Night at school, volleyball practice and a block party to celebrate National Night Out. Being the social secretary, I made the executive decision to blow off everything but the block party. Only about half of our cul-de-sac could come, but we had a great, relaxing night out (at least until the mosquitoes made their appearance).

2011-10-02T21:28:00.000-05:00

We had some of our cute neighbors stay with us over the weekend. They played outside, took a swimsuit bath in our big tub, made pizza, watched a movie and fell asleep BEFORE 10PM (lucky me!) only to awake by 4:30AM!! We sure love these kids -- they get a long so well, it's always a treat to have them over!

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2011-09-22T10:56:00.001-05:00

“Each second we live is a new and unique moment of the universe, a moment that will never be again. And what do we teach our children? We teach them that two and two make four, and that Paris is the capital of France. When will we also teach them what they are? We should say to each of them: Do you know what you are? You are a marvel. You are unique. In all the years that have passed, there has never been another child like you. Your legs, your arms, your clever fingers, the way you move. You may become a Shakespeare, a Michelangelo, a Beethoven. You have the capacity for anything. Yes, you are a marvel. And when you grow up, can you then harm another who is, like you, a marvel? You must work, we must all work, to make the world worthy of its children.”
— Pablo Casals

A Field Trip

2011-09-17T22:54:00.002-05:00

Tonight we headed over to Farmers Branch to see my violin teacher and her husband perform with the Mesquite Symphony Orchestra at Brookhaven College. The LBJ is down to one lane with construction, so we headed out extra early so as not to be late. We left so early in fact that we arrived in Farmer's Branch in time to enjoy some McDonald's (Sr. McFlury with Rolo how you seduce me!). The concert was great, the kids were great and the drive home was fast. We've never taken the kids to such a concert, but it's good to know we can and that they appreciate good music!!

Happy 9/10/11!

2011-09-10T21:01:00.001-05:00

A great article by President Monson very relevant for this weekend...

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Posted at 11:38 AM ET, 09/08/2011
9/11 destruction allowed us to spiritually rebuild

By Thomas S. Monson

The calamity of September 11th, 2001 has cast a long shadow. Ten years later, many of us are still haunted by its terrible tragedy of lost lives and broken hearts. It is an episode of anguish that has become a defining moment in the history of the American nation and the world. This week, the Mormon Tabernacle Choir, along with Tom Brokaw, will pay its own homage to the unforgettable events of September 11, 2001.

There was, as many have noted, a remarkable surge of faith following the tragedy. People across the United States rediscovered the need for God and turned to Him for solace and understanding. Comfortable times were shattered. We felt the great unsteadiness of life and reached for the great steadiness of our Father in Heaven. And, as ever, we found it. Americans of all faiths came together in a remarkable way.

Sadly, it seems that much of that renewal of faith has waned in the years that have followed. Healing has come with time, but so has indifference. We forget how vulnerable and sorrowful we felt. Our sorrow moved us to remember the deep purposes of our lives. The darkness of our despair brought us a moment of enlightenment. But we are forgetful. When the depth of grief has passed, its lessons often pass from our minds and hearts as well.

Our Father’s commitment to us, His children, is unwavering. Indeed He softens the winters of our lives, but He also brightens our summers. Whether it is the best of times or the worst, He is with us. He has promised us that this will never change.

But we are less faithful than He is. By nature we are vain, frail, and foolish. We sometimes neglect God. Sometimes we fail to keep the commandments that He gives us to make us happy. Sometimes we fail to commune with Him in prayer. Sometimes we forget to succor the poor and the downtrodden who are also His children. And our forgetfulness is very much to our detriment.

If there is a spiritual lesson to be learned from our experience of that fateful day, it may be that we owe to God the same faithfulness that He gives to us. We should strive for steadiness, and for a commitment to God that does not ebb and flow with the years or the crises of our lives. It should not require tragedy for us to remember Him, and we should not be compelled to humility before giving Him our faith and trust. We too should be with Him in every season.

The way to be with God in every season is to strive to be near Him every week and each day. We truly “need Him every hour,” not just in hours of devastation. We must speak to Him, listen to Him, and serve Him. If we wish to serve Him, we should serve our fellow men. We will mourn the lives we lose, but we should also fix the lives that can be mended and heal the hearts that may yet be healed.

It is constancy that God would have from us. Tragedies are not merely opportunities to give Him a fleeting thought, or for momentary insight to His plan for our happiness. Destruction allows us to rebuild our lives in the way He teaches us, and to become something different than we were. We can make Him the center of our thoughts and His Son, Jesus Christ, the pattern for our behavior. We may not only find faith in God in our sorrow. We may also become faithful to Him in times of calm.

Thomas S. Monson is president of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

No Labor for Labor Day. Only fun.

2011-09-05T20:29:00.003-05:00

This morning, I got to go with my cute neighbor to see The Help. When I got home, the kids had not cleaned their rooms as we'd talked about (big surprise). And there was Dad watching TV with them on the couch -- the loving able-er of all things fun. So after about an hour, Tiny Toes, Little Man and I went off for an adventure. Tiny Toes has decided she wanted her hair feathered, so I promised her once her room was clean, we'd do it. Little Man, when offered a "treat" of his own, was just happy to jump and run around in the mall "playplace" where we've spent many hours in the past relaxing with dear friends.

Super Happy Brithday Spectaluar Friday and Saturday

2011-08-27T20:54:00.003-05:00

(and I'm full!)
Big Daddy's birthday was yesterday. After he got done teaching, we headed to the theater to see Super 8 (wow, ok, not a kids movie) and picked up a meatball Firehouse sub for lunch. He took the kids swimming that afternoon and then we went to In n Out Burger again for dinner followed by some desert at Coldstone.

Today was Little Man's Birthday. YAY for LUCKY SEVEN!! Tonight we went to ~~Carbohydrate~~, uh, I mean Olive Garden. Yum. I'd like to thank the academy for the apricot chicken.

I always love these two birthdays. Of course we are celebrating these two wonderful men in our lives, but also saying good-bye to summer and hello to another school year as well. Let's make it a great one!

a floor shot.

2011-08-22T21:40:00.003-05:00

here ya go girl! (I'm pretty sure the name of that paint is "ur 'n glow")

here's a better shot...

a much needed swim

2011-08-22T21:38:00.003-05:00

This evening, we took a quick swim. There seemed to be a bunch of problems and stinky situations today that had us all frazzled and irritated, so we took a swim. Tiny Toes snapped this pic -- I like it because it looks like my arms are wrapped around my neck a few times...

already?

2011-08-22T08:44:00.002-05:00

so many tears this morning! geez you think we'd be used to this (I'm glad I was able to pull it together!)

One last playdate before school

2011-08-20T17:50:00.004-05:00

In our church congregation, there are only a handful of us at elementary school we go to. There is a new family this year and so I invited everyone over for some cookie decorating before summer completely evaporated.

Job Completed

2011-08-20T17:41:00.005-05:00

So, back in March, I posted this:
http://littlemanandtinytoes.blogspot.com/2011/03/chchch.html
This was our upstairs bathroom. It needed a redo after we repaired some plumbing problems. I really liked the red star wall paper (if you really can like wall paper), but it was probably orgininal, stained and dying.

drumroll please...

Utah's Top Ten 2011

2011-08-11T15:22:00.007-05:00

10. Watching everyone ride my Uncle's Stand On Lawn Mower
9. The creepy lady who wandered down the street on the 24th with her toddler, asked if she could watch the fireworks we were lighting, started bossing us around, asked to use the bathroom and rummaged around in there until my mom asked her to leave... ya, that was really weird.
8. Both kids losing teeth at Joanna's house in two days
7. Cousin's lunch at my cousin's Kneaders Bakery
6. Swimming at Crestwood
5. Joanna's beautiful home, pool & trampoline
4. Temple Square
3. Cove Fort Days
2. Little Man learning to ride the bike I learned on.
1. The sleepover (which consisted of 1AM tag in the backyard, a 2AM marshmallow roasting and a 4AM lights out).

click on the picture collage to open a new page and click again on it to zoom in...

July 4th Twenty Eleven

2011-07-05T13:43:00.003-05:00

We had a very fun and full 4th! Full of swimming, eating, friends, parades, band concerts and fireworks!

I spy some t-rex driving...

I spy some "paws"...

I spy Big Daddy handling Joseph Smith's copy of the Book of Mormon used during the King Follett discourse...

Because two is better than one

2011-06-25T23:21:00.005-05:00

We were having a birthday bash for Tiny Toes and decided to go ahead and celebrate Little Man's August birthday as well... the result? A fun day at the pool with yummy costco pizza, cake and a bunch of terrific kids!

Our favorite place to celebrate a birthday...

2011-06-18T20:56:00.002-05:00

O to the G.
While celebrating Tiny Toes's birthday over some yummy Olive Garden, we realized we've been celebrating our birthdays there for about 5 years now -- it all started with a little gift card when we lived in Louisiana. They never seem to disappoint. Tonight I had the Venitian Apricot Chicken. And of course we topped off the celebration by sharing a piece of chocolate mousse cake!

Happy Birthday TIny Toes!!!

2011-06-18T09:43:00.001-05:00

This post brought to you by canvas on demand

2011-06-15T15:54:00.003-05:00

So last Christmas, Big Daddy's family gave us a very generous coupon to Canvas On Demand. I FINALLY ordered the canvas. The picture I uploaded wasn't quite right with the canvas dimensions, so they upgraded the size for free. This company is excellent! I just wished they could have photoshopped about 40 pounds off of me and I'd think it was pretty perfect!
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my favorite new sign...

2011-05-27T20:44:00.001-05:00

snapshots...

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one girl is very happy to have FINALLY lost a front tooth

and one boy is very happy playing Lego Star Wars with his daddy (notice the paws)

Crossing Over from Brownie to Junior

2011-05-22T19:13:00.002-05:00

Tiny Toes crossed over from Brownie to Junior this weekend. She's just been in girl scouts for a few months, but really enjoys it and enjoys getting to know the girls in our neighborhood who she'll go to school with next year. This troop has some great leaders and the whole family enjoyed the party. Congrats girls!!

Field Day 2011

2011-05-22T18:58:00.002-05:00

This is our last field day at our elementary (BOO!). Next year, the kids and I will WALK to school at our neighborhood school (YAY)!! Little Man got rained out before I could get a picture with him, but I did get to see Tiny Toes...

End of the season volleyball pool party

2011-05-22T18:47:00.002-05:00

We hosted a pool party for Tiny Toes and her volleyball team at our neighborhood pool. Eventhough the water was FREEZING, the girls had a great time, attacked one coach with water balloons, ate and enjoyed a beautiful cake and ice cream and of course, everyone got a trophy.

Stay on the sunnyside...

2011-05-22T12:24:00.001-05:00

the boys (and girls) of summer are here...

2011-05-06T21:14:00.003-05:00

which we sure love, but the Texas sun, heat and wind are here as well... time for a cowboy hat I think.

conondrum...

2011-05-06T10:49:00.002-05:00

what happens when the darling gift is too pretty to open?

Paper Bead Necklace. Tutorial.

2011-05-03T21:06:00.004-05:00

1. Have a really fun friend who makes you very fun stuff and is super sweet.
2. Agree to be interviewed by her daughter as her daughter's choice of Community Hero (seriously, how cute is that!)
3. Recieve poster of presentation with fabulous paper bead necklace attached.
4. Wear it.
5. ENJOY! :)

Tiny Toes goes to camp

2011-04-29T19:05:00.004-05:00

This morning, Big Daddy woke us up to witness magical history... we are so in love with Wills & Kate (and glad she finally made an honest man of him!)...

After school, we rushed home to grab the supplies and off Tiny Toes went to camp! She was very excited and has great leaders.

UPDATE: email from leader (what would worried moms like me do without email updates)...
Just to let you all know, we're here, all the tents are set up, beds made, stuffed animals perched and we're eating dinner.

Keep your fingers crossed that the weather holds out until we leave.

Cowboys Stadium

2011-04-28T10:10:00.002-05:00

this place is h.u.g.e.

what if Moses had had facebook?

2011-04-25T16:53:00.002-05:00

Happy Easter

2011-04-25T10:38:00.002-05:00

We had a nice quiet, relaxing Easter yesterday. After church, the kids came home to find that the Easter Bunny had been to visit.

Little Man lining up his eggs and quarters.

The Easter Bunny looks on -- do you spot him? ;)

First swim of the season!

2011-04-23T18:45:00.002-05:00

Wahoo! It's almost summer!!

SEW: Round III

2011-03-28T20:50:00.003-05:00

Inspiration:

this site:
http://www.hicketypicketyhandmade.com/2011/01/07/no-hem-skirtits-so-easy/

&

Some fabric I bought at JoAnn's when Tiny Toes was a baby. I was sure I'd make her a cute blanket, but since I don't know how to quilt... the fabric sat.

until now:

SEW: Round II

2011-03-28T19:48:00.003-05:00

Inspiration:
vintage (OK, I just wanted to be able to say "vintage") ruffle found from when I was making my own skirts back in 1999)...

Voilà:

Oh dear... she wanted a retake:

Where's Little Man you ask? Watching Johnny Test; however, a sewing/tailoring project is in the wings for him as well. Coming soon...

a farm, a volleyball game, a new skirt and warm days outside

2011-03-27T18:36:00.006-05:00

SEW Hard! Man, I've never had sewing lessons and I forgot how hard it is and how much I hate tension/bobbin problems. YUCK. But, take this for inspiration:

and here's one for Tiny Toes from my fabric extras:

Tiny Toes took her first stab at volleyball this last Saturday! She did great (don't forget to bend your knees in the ready position!)

We've had some WARM days in the south and the kids have looked forward to playing with their fun friends/neighbors everyday after school.

I volunteered to be a docent at the farm museum during Tiny Toes's 3rd grade fieldtrip. I was supposed to dress up and Tiny Toes decided to join me (HOW FUN!)..

Late Bloomers?

2011-03-23T21:33:00.002-05:00

So Tiny Toes is 8 and Little Man 6. Tiny Toes has lost 2 bottom teeth and Little Man one! Are we slow going or what?!! Here is Tiny Toes's latest tooth adventure. What is so special you ask? Yes, it was her second, but Dad helped pull it out and if you know Dad, you know this is H.U.G.E.

Open House

2011-03-23T21:13:00.003-05:00

Our school had it's open house a couple of weeks ago... I just love going to see the kids get so excited about the work they've done and their teachers.

chchch...

2011-03-18T22:35:00.004-05:00

changes or chain of fools? Big Daddy and I have needed to re-do the floor in the upstairs bathroom since we moved in. The floor is soft from a past leak and the wallpaper has seen better days (although it is so cute -- little red stars!). Here's what's currently there:
Yes, a charming vinyl...

Today the kids had a birthday party for a neighbor, so we hopped in the car and went tile shopping. We looked and looked and looked and decided to definitely do something LIGHTER. Finally, we grabbed two of our favorite LIGHTER tiles and came home. We were SURE there would be a DRASTIC contrast.

Alas:

Spring Break?

2011-03-17T23:12:00.003-05:00

Yes, it's Spring Break and the kids are having a great time just lounging it up and running around crazy with all their fun neighborhood friends. I decided to offer lessons for anyone who wanted to come and so far that's been everyone but one! Tiny Toes had two friends over for a sleepover (or should they be called "wake-overs"??!) earlier in the week and tonight Little Man is having his friend over. The weather has been great. Really it has been a nice relaxing break. except for this pit in my stomach. Every few minutes I realize this pit and then have to sit back to remember all those poor people in Japan. The whole event is just overwhelming to me -- I just cannot imagine all they are up against! All the loss.

Welcome to spring break. with Debbie Downer. wa.wa

My ME phase...

2011-03-12T18:31:00.003-06:00

Somewhere between 1992 and 1994, I went through a heavy phase of all things Mary Englebright and quoting -- just about anything that sounded good. During that time, I was also into sketching, watercoloring and then finishing the whole thing off with a felt-tip pen... this (see below) was one of my crowning acheivements and I just found it the other day. When I did this, I'm not sure I even knew exactly who Thoreau was or what it meant, but I liked the way it sounded.
Today I get it and I love it even more. Thanks 1993 me -- you were on to something (although I'm glad you didn't quit your day job to pursue art).

And now word from Stuart Smalley...

2011-03-03T12:06:00.003-06:00

A friend posted this link today on facebook. I generally don't click on those links but I'm glad I clicked on this one. If you don't want/have time to click, here's the digest version...

I have the ability to accomplish any task I set my mind to with ease and comfort.

I have infinite patience when it comes to fulfilling my destiny.

I am a Divine creation, a piece of God. Therefore, I cannot be undeserving.

I am connected to an unlimited source of abundance.

I have access to unlimited assistance. My strength comes from my connection to my Source of being.

I am an infinite being. The age of my body has no bearing on what I do or who I am

I live in the present moment by being grateful for all of my life experiences as a child.

As I unclutter my life, I free myself to answer the callings of my soul.

I can accomplish anything I put my mind to, because I know that I am never alone

Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother by Amy Chua

2011-02-23T20:34:00.001-06:00

I had to read this. Usually I am not at all interested in super hyped titles (see twilight, etc...), but I had to check this out for myself. My goodness it has garnered so much press -- and mostly negative at that. I was hoping as I read I'd see the hyperbole in between the lines, but sadly, I think she may have even toned it down a bit for the book. Here's what I learned for myself:

1. I need to expect more from my children -- they wont disappoint me.
2. I need to take a ...moreI had to read this. Usually I am not at all interested in super hyped titles (see twilight, etc...), but I had to check this out for myself. My goodness it has garnered so much press -- and mostly negative at that. I was hoping as I read I'd see the hyperbole in between the lines, but sadly, I think she may have even toned it down a bit for the book. Here's what I learned for myself:

1. I need to expect more from my children -- they wont disappoint me.
2. I need to take a greater interest in their activities/hobbies (seriously impressive how much she knew about violin technique, etc...)
3. I need to make sure my kids know how much I love them for who they are and not what they are or what they can do -- or what they do for me.

As I read the book, I have to admit, I'm pretty sure if Amy Chua and I met up in real life I wouldn't care for her, but I did learn from the book and I'm glad I read it.

SHE'S HOME!!!

2011-02-16T18:42:00.001-06:00

need I say more? :)

What I know for sure

2011-02-13T22:50:00.002-06:00

10. Flying without children is well... restful.
9. I missed said children and well... it's worth not being rested.
8. Network cop shows are much more fun watching them with my mother and sister who LOVE them.
7. You can save up to $400/year in gas driving like a grandma.
6. You live longer if you floss (seriously like an average of 6 years).
5. The Rocky Mountains are breath-taking.
4. My paternal grandfather, father, father's brother and sister and now my big sister have all suffered early heart attacks... it's in my genes.
3. My BMI needs to be pretty now. Really pretty.
2. My sister is a lover and a fighter and if she doesn't lick this pnuemonia soon, she'll probably sneak out anyway.
1. I love my husband for lots and lots of things, but especially for sending me off to see my big sister.

update

2011-02-11T21:12:00.003-06:00

Joanna was doing quite well yesterday. Aside from a little short term memory loss, she was up and quite energetic for the first time. Unfortunately, she was moved into respiratory ICU during the night with pneumonia. I am so glad I'm here with her. Please keep her in your prayers!!

You never know...

2011-02-07T12:46:00.002-06:00

This morning we were running late by about 10 minutes which meant we wouldn't have time to stop at Starbucks and get everyone some hot chocolate to help ease us back into the world. At about 6:45 AM, I asked the fam if anyone would mind if I said a quick prayer. I don't usually pray in the car, but I felt compelled thinking the four of us needed a little extra heavenly help through the day when we'd had so much fun snuggling through the ice last week. After I dropped Big Daddy off and the kids off, did my crossing guard duty, I took my violin over to a practice room at the college to get my practicing done while Big Daddy finished teaching his morning classes. My cell phone rang. It was my middle sister. The hairs on the back of my neck stood on end as she told me our big sister had had a heart attack this morning. I immediately wanted to be there but couldn't be.

It turns out the heart attack was quite massive. She will be sedated for at least 24 hours. I am glad we have such a wonderful family who is in Utah to support us and love us, but it sure is frustrating to be here and not be able to do a darn thing...

Texas? Is that you??!!!

2011-02-04T11:33:00.001-06:00

Signs of Ice...

2011-02-03T20:09:00.003-06:00

Approaching Ice Day IV with snow in the forecast...

Holidays from Heaven...

2011-02-02T12:59:00.001-06:00

We are on day #2 of no school. It's too cold to go outside and play in the thin icy layer of snow, so we are cuddling, playing and enjoying our new FIOS (we haven't had REAL cable for years and years). The kids are enjoying Phineas & Ferb, I am reading a book I've been struggling to finish and Big Daddy is working and keeping the fire stoked. One more day? Please???!!! :)

Readjusting

2011-01-26T13:23:00.003-06:00

The last couple of weeks, the kids have been sick on and off. In addition, I'm learning how to be a violin student again which takes more discipline than I remember. Today Tiny Toes is home getting over a cold and Little Man is totally side-lined with a miserable ear infection which greeted us at 12:30 this morning (last week it was the stomach flu). I've never dealt with a monster like this, but I've heard of them. The pain rocked him right out of his blissful sleep and half awake he was screaming with fear that the doctor would have to cut his ear off in order to make it better (he thought I said "ear egg" instead of ear ache and was sure the eggs would need to be extracted. painfully. Here are some other declarations...

"I don't want to be me anymore! It hurts too bad!"

"This pain is NEVER going to go away! I just know it!"

"I'm pretty sure I'm going to barf because of this!"

Poor guy. Big Daddy is out right now procuring prescriptions. There's always this time of year where it takes a good month to be better and we are anxiously waiting for that time!!

I am working on my weight. I've been pretty consistent with the Wii Fit, but I realized I eat pretty much all the time for every reason under the sun. I just finished this book and am trying to following the guidelines below:

• Eat when you are hungry.
• Eat sitting down in a calm environment. This does not include the car.
• Eat without distractions (includes radio, television, newspapers, books, intense or anxiety-producing conversations or music).
• Eat what your body wants.
• Eat until you are satisfied.
• Eat (with the intention of being) in full view of others.
• Eat with enjoyment, gusto and pleasure.

Snow

2011-01-10T12:10:00.004-06:00

Yesterday we had a couple inches of snow during church. After we got home, the kids (including Big Daddy) ran outside and built a snowman. We really thought we'd get a snow day today due some possible icing, but no such luck...

Look Mom, both hands!

2011-01-09T07:35:00.002-06:00

Our Tiny Toes had a great first piano rectial yesterday. We couldn't be more proud of her. Way to go!!

a fun place to waste time...

2011-01-05T08:59:00.001-06:00

I made a movie -- you should try it too, it's fun.

New Year's: Look Not behind Thee

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Hope you enjoy it! I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE it!!

The Charlie Schulz Philosophy

2011-01-01T12:16:00.000-06:00

The following is the philosophy of Charles Schulz, the creator of the 'Peanuts' comic strip.

You don't have to actually answer the questions. Just ponder on them.

Just read the e-mail straight through, and you'll get the point.

1. Name the five wealthiest people in the world.

2. Name the last five Heisman trophy winners.

3. Name the last five winners of the Miss America pageant.

4 Name ten people who have won the Nobel or Pulitzer Prize.

5. Name the last half dozen Academy Award winners for best actor and actress.

6. Name the last decade's worth of World Series winners.

The point is, none of us remembers the headliners of yesterday.

These are no second-rate achievers.

They are the best in their fields.

But the applause dies..

Awards tarnish.

Achievements are forgotten.

Accolades and certificates are buried with their owners.

Here's another quiz. See how you do on this one:

1. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school.

2. Name three friends who have helped you through a difficult time.

3. Name five people who have taught you something worthwhile.

4. Think of a few people who have made you feel appreciated and special!!

5. Think of five people you enjoy spending time with.

Easier?

The lesson: The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials....the most money...or the most awards.

They simply are the ones who care the most.

Pass this on to those people who have made a difference in your life, like I did.

'Don't worry about the world coming to an end today. It's already tomorrow in Australia!'

''Be Yourself. Everyone Else Is Taken!"

Merry! Merry!

2010-12-25T22:12:00.003-06:00

Happy Holidays!!

2010-12-23T20:54:00.002-06:00

GNO @ Cheesecake Factory

2010-12-22T13:22:00.002-06:00

It all started here. The rest is a facebook miracle.

a visit to revisit

2010-12-21T14:52:00.003-06:00

In life we often have routines we fall in and out of. Sometimes it's being in certain places or spending time with different people. The weird thing is how our lives can change so that your routines are all of the sudden different and those places and people become memories and how we quickly busy ourselves with the new faces and places. Moving doesn't help these situtations. Today I was able to visit with a very dear friend. Thanks for coming over! It was a breath of fresh air... now if only our picture didn't look drunk. ;)

What did YOU do this weekend??

2010-12-20T21:19:00.002-06:00

Ward Christmas Party and Class Parties

2010-12-18T11:00:00.004-06:00

We really enjoyed our church Christmas party this year. We are really at home here (even if no one ate my enchiladas). Then yesterday the kids had their holiday parties at school... yay! And now for some time off with the family!!
BTW: WAY TO GO TINY TOES ON THE HONOR ROLL!!!!!!

A couple of Little Manisms...

2010-12-15T20:56:00.002-06:00

We've been watching Harry Potter. Tiny Toes has enjoyed reading it, so I've been getting the movies from the library. Little Man likes to watch, but also needs to sit close to Big Daddy and often worries about the lead character dying to which we remind him there are more movies to come with said character.

During stories at bedtime, Little Man often recounts experiences of the day and takes time to ask questions about events, etc... in other words, as I try to read stories to quiet him down, he tends to become quite talkative and interrupts every few words promising this will indeed be his last question.

Tonight, during the movie "death" was trying to take Harry Potter. Little Man is especially sensitive to death. I was as a child, but I figured that was because my father died when I was eleven and I was a bit traumatized. However, Little Man seems to be extra sensitive to mortality and it's apparent brevity.

While I was reading my last book (a very dry section from Annals of America -- it really puts them to sleep and I learn something!), he interupted to ask me about Heavenly Father, death and the after-life no doubt looking for some reassurance. After we discussed the "Plan of Salvation" as we believe it to be, he said "I wish I had a picture of Heavenly Father doing something so I could see what He looks like. I wish I could be right by Him so He could tell me how dumb those scary Harry Potter parts are." Almost immediately, Diary of a Wimpy Kid came to mind to which he stated, "that cheese touch thing is just a dumb game, huh?!! Wimpy Kid isn't real is it?" I assured him Wimpy Kid was not real and yes, the cheese touch thing is just a dumb game. ;)

Too funny (and unfortunately even a little too true!!)

2010-12-12T19:56:00.001-06:00

Ensemble

2010-12-08T13:48:00.003-06:00

So I've been playing with an ensemble this fall... a woodwind ensemble which has been surprisingly fun and, well, fun. Last night we had a "performance". Aside from retirement homes, weddings, church meetings and the like I haven't done any "performances" since about 1991 or so. I was scared and probably looked like a dear in the headlights on stage (frantically trying not to look like I was counting, and frequently losing said count).
Next semester there should be a string ensemble for me and I am looking forward to that. In addition, I will be taking private lessons for the first time since about 1991.

It's beginning to look a lot like...fun.

2010-12-06T17:27:00.003-06:00

We had a great weekend. We ate dinner at the Cheesecake Factory (for the first time in 10 years) watched the first Narnia movie (for the first time) in our fun Christmassy home, had some W.O.N.D.E.R.F.U.L. friends over for dinner, and celebrated my birthday. Now if I just didn't feel so down and depressed this time of year! I don't know what it is, but since I was about 13 or so, the time from Thanksgiving to Valentine's is just a bit dreary in my heart. Maybe I have S.A.D., or maybe I'm just sad around this time, but I always feel a bit more melancholy than merry. Wish me luck this year!

Thoreau said "the language of friendship is not words but meanings"

2010-12-04T12:34:00.002-06:00

(and a little food helps, too)...

Capturing Memories: Remember Little Red?

2010-11-26T21:59:00.000-06:00

Capturing Memories: Remember Little Red?

The creative mind lives in a messy room...

2010-11-24T15:09:00.003-06:00

Our Tiny Toes is very creative and always has been. We were so frustrated with her for not keeping better care of her room, until I talked to the reinging queen of creativity herself -- Ms. Creativity 1976-present. Ever since that conversation, I've had a greater appreciation for Tiny Toes's right brained ways which along with her giant heart make me valentines 365 days each year...

So, this is what I did today for her.

BEFORE:

AFTER:

Happy Birthday to my reality check.

2010-11-18T19:33:00.003-06:00

Yes, that's right, happy birthday to my reality check. I have had a handful of reality checks in my life... you know -- those people you really look up to, want to be more like and are loyal to you and honest with you just because they love you? Just purely motivated by love? You just can't go wrong with them in your life. Well, one of those people is Rebecca. Rebecca can play the piano with greatest of them, has lightening quick wit, a gorgeous home, is kind to everyone, knows who she is and doesn't let anyone mess with it, always looks smokin' and is always on time. Did I mention she's always on time (and has 5 kids!!)? So cool. I really look up to her (and I think I'm taller than she is not counting hair!). I love you and hope you have a fabulous birthday. Thank you for coming to Texas (and to our house on Tuesday)!!

9 November 2010: Little Man Lost His First Tooth

2010-11-12T08:59:00.003-06:00

Little Man was eating a cookie for desert after his bath and decided half-way through that because his tooth was so lose that he shouldn't eat anything else until it comes out! And he wouldn't have either. I persuaded him to let me give it a wiggle and it was barely hanging on my a thread. When Tiny Toes finished with her bath, she ran and got him a box of tissues and some water for swishing around. We coaxed him until he worked up the courage (and Tiny Toes set out some little plastic treasures to reward him for every time his gave it a yank), grabbed a tissue and gave it a good yank. Then panic set in because of the blood. We gave him a second to get himself together. He took a swig of the water set out for him and ran in to tell Big Daddy who was working in his office (fortunately, because wiggly wriggly little teeth make him a squeamish). Tiny Toes grabbed the tooth case the nurse had given her a few weeks back and we placed the tooth carefully in the case and tucked it under his pillow. In the morning, sure enough, there was $1 where the tooth had been. He was so excited to go to school and show his friends the new window in his teeth. When he came out of school, I asked him if he was sure to show his class the new "window" and he said, "yes, but I only showed those who don't pick their noses."

Working up the courage

Tiny Toes setting up plastic goodies for yank rewards

Done!!

Skate Night Twenty Ten

2010-11-06T23:00:00.002-05:00

My kids are really catching on! I think I lived on roller skates by 7 or 8, but times have changed and I'm just glad my kids can adapt and catch on quickly to make up for me being such a slacker! :)

Happy Halloween 2010

2010-10-31T20:46:00.001-05:00

Great trunk or treat last night! Lots of candy and fun. Fantastic weather, too! Hope you had a great one!!

Today I took a shower to give a shower during a shower

2010-10-23T19:38:00.003-05:00

I have been so excited to give my friend Marquee a baby shower and today was the day. On Thursday, my sweet friend Di showed me how to make cake balls (by making them while I watched! ;). Big Daddy was a rockstar in the kitchen preparing the food. My friend Shirley showed up to put some of our favorite toys on the table. And me? Well, I just enjoyed having some fabulous ladies in our home!

Congrats Marquee! Can't wait to meet little Andrew!!

Thanks again, Di, Big Daddy and Shirley!!

It's a potluck!

2010-10-22T21:52:00.003-05:00

I have wanted to have friends over, forever, but our last home was just too "cozy" for entertaining. So, I finally got my got my act together and organized a potluck for some friends we've moved away from and some new friends. It was really a lovely visit and I've never been so thankful for such wonderful, inspiring, supportive, uplifting ~~bras~~ gals.

Ch-ch-ch-changes...

2010-10-17T19:51:00.002-05:00

When I woke up this morning, I was the weekday meeting coordinator for Relief Society at church. I have had that calling for just about 3 months. When i walked out of the bishop's office at 12:35, I was back in the primary presidency with the kids -- yay!!

Have I made it?

2010-10-09T20:31:00.002-05:00

I think so... I've made the 365 two days in a row. How can I top this? ever?

And now a word from Tiny Toes...

2010-10-07T21:10:00.003-05:00

Today was a nice day, it was cold, but warmed up. During lunch at school we were doing a true or false game because two groups for lunch and specials had to stay and that involved me. And I am in the orange group in 3rd grade. I was pumping my fist "yes!" because I got the question right and then the blue strap on my lunch box, hit my most losest tooth and pulled so it was facing straight out, then it started bleeding. And then we went to lunch. My teacher said that if I pulled it out myself, I'd get 5 tickets (to be traded for a prize out of the treasure box). So I did! And I was so excited. One of my friends thought it was so weird and he thought it was cool too! So I went to the nurse and got a container in the shape of a tooth on a necklace, a shark sticker which said, "I lost a tooth." I finished my lunch and went to recess. Then I showed my friends. Then we went inside the school. And that's all I'd like to comment on my tooth that is gone.

congrats on losing your first tooth sweetie!!
love,
mommy & daddy

Life is a cake walk

2010-10-02T16:04:00.004-05:00

Today we went to the school carnival. Big Daddy always looks forward to the cake walk and every year he wins -- including this one. Congrats! (and enjoy eating that mammoth monster!)

Little Man enjoyed his balloon airplane and Tiny Toes rocked the Limbo. I was happy with a soda and the fact that I wasn't sweating up a storm -- it was a beautiful day...

3 John 1:4

2010-10-02T10:43:00.001-05:00

I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in the truth.

Goings On

2010-09-25T15:57:00.009-05:00

What are we up to (for all of my 1.5 readers)?

Big Daddy is teaching many, many classes and picked up a night class at another local school just for yucks. He is very busy, but we love and appreciate him for all of his hard work -- and for the fact that he still makes time for Mario Kart and Lego Adventures.

Me. Well, I have begun to play with a local community ensemble and picked up two violin students. I have really, really enjoyed having the time and need to practice/play again.

Tiny Toes. Adjusting to 3rd grade like a star (and now preferring to dress like one, too). She has her first tooth about to come out at any time. Does anyone know what the tooth fairy offers these days?

Little Man. Enjoying 1st grade and more Wii than he should -- but he's the best driver in the house! He recently accidentally erased his Mario Kart history and had to start over from scratch -- he was devistated. Sweetly, Dad stepped in and erased his own history in solidarity.

Mr. Peabody & Mrs. Peatunia -- Mr. P. has had some kidney problems and prefers fresh ice water whenever someone walks past the fridge -- he comes running when he hears the ice maker. Doesn't look out the window too much anymore. Just really prefers to sleep and meows at Big Daddy for pets. Mrs. Peatunia is a good nanny and generally stays on Tiny Toes's bed until she falls asleep (unless she is micromanaged too much) at which point she comes downstairs to join Mr. Peabody on our bed (lucky us).

Here are some pics from the last little while...

Annual Balloon Fest Breakfast

Helping in the kitchen

Treats after singing at a local retirement home this morning for a church activity